This Is How It Always Is

by Laurie Frankel

Sarah's take

I wholeheartedly recommend *This Is How It Always Is* for its tender exploration of identity and the complexities of family dynamics. Frankel beautifully captures the emotional journey of transition through the lens of love and acceptance, making it a perfect read for anyone seeking a nuanced understanding of gender identity and the courage it takes to be true to oneself.

About the book

When five-year-old Claude announces she wants to be a girl, parents Rosie and Penn embark on an extraordinary journey of love, acceptance, and difficult choices as their youngest becomes Poppy. Moving from small-town scrutiny to a fresh start in Seattle, this family grapples with the complexities of protecting their transgender daughter while honoring her authentic self, discovering that the stories we tell—and don't tell—shape who we become.

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